Episode after episode of the TV show Intervention cuts to the quick of how addicts ruin not only their own lives, but how their addictive and destructive behavior can break even the strongest of us. Shattered families confront shattered addicts in the hopes of mending...
When Active Addiction Enters Stage Left
It's hard enough to arrest a relapse or a slip and help our clients or loved ones get back on track, but what do you do when the relapse turns to active addiction, being straddled with some sick days here and there, then back hitting hard again? I wish there was a...
The Capricorn Scapegoat
Anyone who has observed or studied human beings knows that there is a pecking order to every group, with the pack leader at the top, low man on the totem pole at the bottom, and everyone else fits in between, in some form of hierarchy. A common but little discussed...
The Notion of Hitting Rock Bottom
Hitting Rock Bottom refers to the notion that a person must hit their lowest point before having the motivation to change. It implies the person needs to experience firsthand the worst consequences of his actions before he will be motivated to get help and alter these...
Loss Is The Biggest Consequence
If you think you need to set up your own logical 'consequences' in response to an addict or alcoholics behavior, think again. The natural consequences of their behavior create isolation, grief, loss, and disheartenment. Some have lost husbands and children. Some have...
Compassion And Boundaries- A Must In Recovery
In the addiction field, we refer to substance abuse as a “family disease.” While there may be only one addict in the family, the disease has a trickle-down effect, impacting not only the addict’s life, but also the lives of his or her family, friends and loved ones....
The Grief of Death by Overdose
If you thought the avoidance around death and grief in our society was bad, it is nothing compared to the avoidance of drug-related deaths. Overdose deaths outnumber traffic fatalities in the US, and someone dies every 14 minutes from a drug overdose in this country-...
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